I screen all new friends for my safety and comfort and for the safety and comfort of my existing clients.

I offer six different options for screening. The first three options are suitable for those who have seen providers before and the latter three options are ideal for newbies. Please provide one or more of the following.


1. Provider references

I will happily reach out to two providers who have seen you within a year to verify you. Please send the following for each of your two references:

  1. Name

  2. Website and/or social media link

  3. Email and/or phone number


2. P411

Please have at least two recent (within six month) okays. Submit an appointment request directly through P411. I may reach out to the providers who verified you and/or request additional information.


3. Private Delights 

Please have at least two recent verified reviews from established providers. Click the "Get Screened" button on my profile. Then, send me a quick text or email to let me know that you've done so. I may request additional information.


4. Employment Verification

Please send one or more of the following:

  1. A link to your LinkedIn profile, which must have a photo and 200+ connections for me to accept it as screening

  2. Your work website bio, with pic

  3. A link to another website including a photo of you that verifies your employment (such as your IMDB page or a newspaper article about you)

  4. A photo of your work ID badge and a photo of your government-issued ID

  5. A message from your work email address

5. student Verification

Please send one or more of the following:

  1. Student ID

  2. An email from your .edu address

You must also provide a photo of your government-issued ID (you may obscure the address, but photo, name, and date of birth must be visible). This is to verify your identity and to confirm that you are 25+ years old. I will not book with anyone under 25. No exceptions.


6. Coffee Consultation (with id)

If none of the above options work for you, you can book a public meeting with me in lieu of other screening. We'll meet at a coffeeshop or bar in Oakland, Berkeley, or SF and chat for around 30 minutes. If all goes well, we'll schedule a session for another day.

I never offer a session on the same day as a consult. 

Coffee consultations are $300, cash only. Please present this amount in a gift card or small gift bag at the beginning of the consult.

You must provide government-issued photo ID in advance to book a consult. This option is not available when Iā€™m on tour.

Thank you for understanding the importance of screening!