frequently asked questions


“how do i know you’re legit?”

I am an OG provider with over a decade of excellent reviews. Unfortunately, I was recently booted off of Twitter, but I am active on Bluesky and reddit. Also… if I were to AI generate a fake baddie, I do not think I would include a poorly done Homer Simpson tattoo!

There are absolutely scammers out there, and I have had my photos stolen. This is my only website, and the two accounts linked above are my only social media. My only email and only phone number are listed here. Stay safe out there!

“where do you host?”

I host from a discrete private apartment on the Lower East Side. It is cozy and charming, and there is a shower available for your use.

My incall is in a walk-up building with no elevators. If this is not accessible for you, let me know and we’ll make alternative arrangements.

If you’d prefer to meet in another part of town, or if the idea of hanging out in a suite just sounds fun, I’m happy to suggest one of my favorite NYC hotels.

When I tour, I stay at a four or five star hotel in or very near the city center.

“do you offer outcalls?”

Yes, I offer outcalls in New York and when I’m on tour.

In New York, I offer outcalls within the five boroughs. I may request a travel fee if an outcall location is not easily accessible by train.

I am happy to meet with you at your hotel. Please note that I do not visit private residences on a first date.

“WIll you please visit my city?

You can find my tour dates here. If I am not planning to visit your city, there are four ways we can connect:

  1. If you live in or near a major city, fly me there

  2. If you live within a four-hour train ride of NYC, train-me-to-you

  3. Make a trip to NYC… I can be your tour guide!

  4. Book a text or phone session (info at the bottom of this page)

“how much notice do you need?”

I am almost never able to accommodate same-day sessions. I’d recommend reaching out as far in advance as possible, especially for tour bookings.

If I do have same-day availability, I charge a flat fee of $900 in addition to the normal rate if you are a new client.

I do not find same-day requests insulting. I just keep a busy schedule including another job in fitness, lots of gym time, various creative projects, social life, etc.!

“do you care if i’m old/fat/short?”

You are never too old to book me! You can, however, be too young—I only see clients who are at least 21. I appreciate all body types and am attracted to people of all shapes and sizes.

“do you see newbies?”

Yep, as long as you’re at least 21 years old and pass my screening. It is part of my job to make sure you feel comfortable when you meet me! Feel free to let me know if it’s your first time seeing a provider.

“do you see clients with disabilities?”

Yes, I have seen many clients with disabilities over the years! You are welcome.

Unfortunately, my Lower East Side incall is not very accessible. Please inform me of your accessibility needs when you reach out, and we’ll make other arrangements if need be.

“do you see solo women?”

Absolutely! I am genuinely bisexual and glad to see ladies.

“do you see couples?”

Yes, I love to entertain couples! Please note that there is an additional fee for these sessions.

Both parties must contact me and go through the screening process.

“can i bring wine? 420 friendly? Do you party?"

I don’t drink alcohol or use other drugs other than (probably too much) caffeine. However, I don’t mind at all if you partake in your substance of choice. I believe in harm reduction and am very nonjudgmental when it comes to this stuff.

Smoking (weed, cigarettes, cigars, or anything else) is not allowed in my incall, so please make arrangements to host if you want to smoke indoors. Vaping in my incall is okay.

If you want to bring me a beverage, I love kombucha, Celsius, Diet Coke, and cold brew. Sealed containers only please.

“do you offer dinner dates?”

Absolutely! If you’re visiting NYC and aren’t familiar with our culinary scene, I would love to make some suggestions. I do not have any dietary restrictions aside from the fact that I don’t drink alcohol (alcohol used in food preparation is totally fine). I’m an adventurous eater and up for pretty much anything!

“may i make an outfit request?”

Sure, within reason. I am happy to accommodate general requests for things like yoga pants, jeans/casual clothing, heels, lingerie, stockings, or business attire—assuming that I have the item(s) you are requesting and that my manner of dress will be appropriate for the setting of our date.

If you’d like to see me in something I don’t already own, you are welcome to gift it to me. I am VERY busty, which makes me a bit hard to shop for when it comes to tops, so you may want to reach out to make sure something will fit before purchasing (or just include a gift receipt). I am an XS bottom / size 2. My measurements are 38-24-34. My shoe size is 8 US.

“do you offer xyz?"

If you have a specific fetish or kinky interest, take a look at this page and see if it’s listed. If not, feel free to inquire after screening. I do not offer submissive services.

Please do let me know if you’re interested in an activity that requires preparation (e.g., role play) or special equipment (e.g., light bondage), or if you’d like to study the classics or film the session. The best time to mention these things is after screening but before our session.

Detailed explicit discussion is not part of the booking process, but you can find my text and phone session offerings at the bottom of this page if you’d like to discuss mutual interests.

“is tipping expected? can i bring you a gift?"

I am a business owner who sets my own rates, so I do not expect tips. They are always appreciated, but certainly not mandatory. The same goes for gifts. I keep a small wishlist here. Thank you for thinking of me!

“how can i be a good client?"

Familiarize yourself with my rates, protocol, and screening process. Include all the requested information in your initial communication.

Get the business portion of our meeting (payment) out of the way at the very beginning of our date. If you’re a repeat client paying electronically, please pay in full before our start time.

Have impeccable hygiene. Wash your entire body very thoroughly. Fresh breath is especially important; I have mouthwash available for your use at my incall. Keep your nails trimmed and filed.

Treat me and anyone else we interact with on our date (e.g., waitstaff) with courtesy and kindness. I don’t care if you use the right fork, but the rules of etiquette that are rooted in consideration of others are important to me.

Remember that I am a professional providing a service, and respect the boundaries of the professional relationship. I am very much open to developing genuine connections with my clients, but it is essential that we honor the container created by the nature of the relationship. Beautiful things happen in the container!

“do you allow reviews"

Yes! I have over a decade of glowing reviews on TER. Please stick to general information about location (i.e. neighborhood is fine, exact street or hotel name should not be included). If you see me for a duo, please only write a review if the other provider explicitly allows them.